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BehavioralDPDaniel Pink 2-min read 5-min action

The Regret-on-Three Test

Ask whether you'll regret avoiding this conversation in three days, three months, three years.

The concept

Anticipated regret as decision filter

Pink's research on regret shows that the deepest regrets come from inaction — connection, courage, and conversation not had. Using anticipated regret as a forward filter shifts behavior in the moment.

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The Power of Regret
By Daniel PinkView source

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