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ClinicalEPEsther Perel 3-min read 8-min action

The Worth Decoupling

Separate the value of the ask from the value of you before you walk into the room.

The concept

The stories we negotiate from

Perel's work on relational dynamics shows that we freeze in negotiation when we've quietly fused the outcome with our worth as a person. The unlock is naming that fusion before it runs the conversation.

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The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity
By Esther PerelView source

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