The Compassionate Witness
Write the burnout story in third person, then read it back as a friend would.
The concept
Story editing & self-compassion
Gottlieb's clinical work shows that chronic over-functioning is held in place by a story that says 'I'm the only one who can'. Until you can witness that story from the outside, you can't revise it.
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How people ran this
Used this before a portfolio review. Sat with the dread for 8 minutes, then opened Figma and just shipped the worst version. Got the best feedback of my year.
Maya, product designer
Ran it during a planning week when I kept rewriting the same doc. Three rough versions in 15 minutes — my staff eng picked the one I least liked.
Jordan, eng manager
I'm a chronic deleter. The 'name the feeling' step was the unlock. It was almost always shame, not perfectionism.
Anon
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