The Ask Pre-Mortem
Imagine the ask going wrong in three specific ways, then write a one-line response to each.
The concept
Defensive pessimism as preparation
Grant argues that the most effective negotiators don't suppress anxiety — they channel it into specific contingency planning. A pre-mortem turns vague dread into rehearsed moves.
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Think Again: The Power of Knowing What You Don't Know
Chapter 3: The Joy of Being Wrong
By Adam GrantView source
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How people ran this
Used this before a portfolio review. Sat with the dread for 8 minutes, then opened Figma and just shipped the worst version. Got the best feedback of my year.
Maya, product designer
Ran it during a planning week when I kept rewriting the same doc. Three rough versions in 15 minutes — my staff eng picked the one I least liked.
Jordan, eng manager
I'm a chronic deleter. The 'name the feeling' step was the unlock. It was almost always shame, not perfectionism.
Anon
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